We are in a hard season. You know the kind. One where you can't start up a prayer chain because it's too personal and complex. One where you can't share in a small group without crying. One where my kids ate McDonald's for lunch yesterday because I didn't have the physical and emotional energy to think through something as simple as a meal.
To be honest I'm sick of the hard places. We've had a rough couple of years around here. If you've followed our journey even for a few weeks you've seen it. It would be nice to think the rough stuff is behind us and tied up with a pretty bow. But it's not.
I've learned that we can do hard things. I
made this little sign for our kitchen a few months ago. It serves as a
reminder of all that God has brought us through. And that we can go through
more if He leads us there. It reminds me of Isaiah 43:2:
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through
the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall
not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.
There are seasons in life that are just
plain rough. The kind of rough that smooths out my edges that God uses to work
out my redemption. It's in these seasons that God exposes my heart: where I'm
leaning and looking. So often I'm leaning on a foundation that can shift and
trusting what is directly in front of me rather than His kingdom. I'm looking
to my circumstances and comparing them to others when I should be
looking to Jesus.
We sang this in church yesterday and I got
a gut check. This has been my prayer. AND this has been my answer for this
space that we've found ourselves in.
I Asked the Lord
(Words by John Newton, Music by
Laura Taylor)
I asked the Lord that I might grow
In faith,
and love, and every grace;
Might more of His salvation
know,
And seek,
more earnestly, His face.
’Twas He who taught me thus
to pray,
And He, I trust, has answered
prayer!
But it has
been in such a way,
As almost
drove me to despair.
I hoped that
in some favored hour,
At once He’d answer my
request;
And by His
love’s constraining pow’r,
Subdue my
sins, and give me rest.
Instead of this, He made me
feel
The hidden evils of my heart;
And let the
angry pow’rs of hell
Assault my
soul in every part.
Yea more,
with His own hand He seemed
Intent to aggravate my woe;
Crossed all
the fair designs I schemed,
Blasted my
gourds, and laid me low.
"Lord, why is
this," I trembling cried,
"Wilt thou pursue thy
worm to death?"
“’Tis in
this way," the Lord replied,
"I
answer prayer for grace and faith."
"These
inward trials I employ,
From self, and pride, to set
thee free;
And break
thy schemes of earthly joy,
That thou
may’st find thy all in Me.”
I don't want to wish away the hard things.
I want to embrace them in some mysterious and crazy way knowing that God can
use these seasons for my heart and my holiness.
Our family can do hard things. And
we're slowly getting better at it...
Uncle Doug and I think about your family often and lift you in prayer. I kind of understand about hard things....mine are different from yours but hard just the same. I try to stay positive but it is difficult. Walking through the valleys makes the mountain top moments even sweeter. (Just wish for mountain top moments!)
ReplyDeletePraying for you!! Tough stuff stinks! It is not fun, and yet....it makes us who we are....even the really tough junk I would not wish on anyone.
ReplyDeleteAmen and amen friend. We are praying for you all- more than anything asking the lord to be ever NEAR in the midst of the hard. You guys are amazing-
ReplyDeletea IG friend referred me to you'd website. I just had a failed adoption and was supposed to go to an orientation today but husband was ill so now we have to wait until September. I am crushed but know The Lord has me here for a reason. been encoraged by your blog. I'll have to find you on IG :)
ReplyDeleteJenna - so glad you've been encouraged! You should email sometime so we can chat about your journey :)
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